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For ops managers and executive assistantsGetting your boss to yes

Everyone assumes I'll run our event. I know we need a producer. I just don't know how to say that to my boss.

That's a hard spot to be in. You can see the event needs a specialist, you already have a full-time job, and you'd have to say so to the person who assumed you'd handle it.

Asking for a producer protects the event and your role in it. You stay the point person and the bridge between your boss, your team, and the producer. The producer leads the production. Your boss gets an event built to enroll, and you get to do your best work in it.

In their words

Teams who were in your seat

From hosts and team members we've produced events with.

“This has been the most organized we've been for an event yet. A mission-critical piece is freeing John entirely, aside from the major decisions with me.”

Frank B. · Repeat event host

“Christina, Josh and I did all the planning. The three of us were pulled in so many different directions that half the things we planned didn't happen. We're never doing something like this again without a coordinator.”

Evelyn K. · Summit host, after planning her own wedding

“I work lots of events all over the world, and every time I do an event that Shay is running, the difference is night and day. The way the team works, the way everyone knows what their job is. It really translates to profit.”

Denise · Coach and trainer on event teams

Who does what

You stay the bridge. The producer leads.

This is the picture to put in front of your boss. Nothing about your role shrinks. The production moves to someone whose whole job it is.

You keep

  • Point person for your boss and the producer
  • The voice of your brand, your clients, and your team
  • Routing decisions to your boss and getting answers back
  • Your list, your registration, and your attendee relationships
  • Knowing what's happening at every stage, without carrying all of it

The producer leads

  • Venue sourcing, contracts, and negotiation
  • Budget, deposits, and payment schedules
  • A run of show built around the offer
  • AV, vendors, and on-site staffing
  • Ticket tracking and attendance forecasts
  • Leading the crew on show day, and the debrief after

Your pitch kit

What to say, ready to copy

Fill in the brackets and send it, or use it as notes for the conversation.

The one-sentence version

Say this first. It puts the event's results ahead of your workload.

I want [event name] to enroll as many people as possible into [program], and I want you on stage, not answering logistics questions. I'll be the bridge, and I think a producer should lead the production.

The message to your boss

Works as an email or a Slack message.

Hi [Name], I've been thinking about [event name] and want to set it up to do what it's for: enroll people into [program]. I'd like us to bring in an event producer to lead the production. I'll stay your point person and keep everything connected to our team. Venue contracts, the run of show, vendors, and leading a crew on show day are a full-time specialty, and I don't want our event to be where I learn it. Grace & Ease Productions has produced more than 100 client events. Their fee usually equals one or two enrollments in a program like ours, and on one recent event the savings they negotiated were more than their fee. Can we take a free Event Strategy Call with them together this week? Here's the link: https://form.jotform.com/ShayWheat/event_strategy_2026 [Your name]

Three things your boss cares about

Lead with these in the conversation, in this order.

1. Enrollment. A producer designs the room around the offer, so the event is built to fill [program]. 2. Their time. They teach and lead from the stage. Logistics questions stop landing on them. 3. Money. The fee usually equals one or two enrollments, and contract savings cover part of it. One client saved $16,336 on a single event.

If your boss pushes back

Short answers to the questions you'll hear

“Can't you just handle it?”

I can keep it all connected. Negotiating venue contracts, building the run of show, and leading a crew on show day is a separate job. I don't want our event to be the place I learn it.

“Isn't that a lot of money?”

Their fee usually equals one or two enrollments in our program. They also negotiate the contracts, and on one recent event the savings were more than their fee.

“Will we lose control of our event?”

No. You make the big decisions, and I stay your point person. The producer runs production and keeps us both updated.

“Why not a cheaper planner?”

A planner books the room. A producer builds the event around the offer and tracks the numbers that predict how many people enroll.

The math

Numbers to bring to the conversation

100+
client events produced
1–2
enrollments at a $10K+ price point usually covers the fee
$16,336
saved for one client on a single event

Bosses say yes to numbers faster than to workload. Lead with what the event can produce and what it can save. Your capacity is the third reason, after those two.

From a real room

Coaching community event

The savings covered more than the fee

143
attendees
38
enrolled
$16,336
saved in hotel, AV, and food costs

$238,098 in contracted revenue. We cut breakfast by $18 a person for 180 people over two days, and saved on outside AV, hotel internet, hotel power, and the VIP dinner. Those savings alone were more than our fee.

Before the conversation

Run your event's numbers and bring them with you

The enrollment rate starts lower than what our past rooms have done. Move the sliders to match your offer.

buying units
projected enrollments
projected program revenue

If our fee equals one or two enrollments, that's , which is . This is an illustration, not a quote or a promise. For a full projection, use the Event Revenue Calculator.

The cost of waiting

What staying put costs

If you say yes to leading it, the event lands on top of your real job. Your boss ends up answering logistics questions in the weeks they should spend preparing to teach.

Another way in

Start with a smaller ask

If full production feels like too big an ask, start with one piece. Venue sourcing and contract negotiation, or a run-of-show review, is an easier first yes, and your boss gets to see how we work.

Bring your boss to a Strategy Call

Book a time and invite your boss. We'll walk through the event, the offer, and what a producer would take off both of your plates. You'll leave with a clear picture of the split.

Results shown come from past client events. They are not typical and not a promise. Your results depend on your offer, your audience, your list, and your follow-through. Client names are shortened for privacy. Some cost and planning-time figures are estimates and are marked as such.